It’s very funny to discover that dating now not only belongs to adults; teenagers dominate the dating world, and even pre-teenagers are not left out of the game. Of course, if you had the opportunity to observe people from different age groups date, you will tell that experience matters a lot in dating and a lot of times it is not so much a respecter of your age group.
Different age groups may date differently as influenced by members of their age group, the environment in which they were raised, and the (changes in the) fashionable trends of the time or age. Despite all these factors that affect dating across age groups, there are certain rules that stand the test of time. These guiding rules help to ensure that you do not goof your long awaited opportunity with that loved one, and everyone, both young and old needs to apply them in order to have unforgettable successes with their dates.
Sometimes, I wonder why people respect fire irrespective of their ages, so long as they have had an experience with in the past. Dating without applying some principles may be like your first unpleasant experience with fire. You remember that day, huh? Some people give up on dating or have the wrong attitude to it because of failure on their first date.
If you believe you are matured enough to date, you have got to work a lot on your attitude because it will tell a great deal how successful you will be.
Here are some of the commandments of successful dating.
1. Thou shalt look very good and be punctual with your date. Remember that there is no second opportunity to make a first impression. You will be addressed the way you are dressed.
2. Thou shalt commend the looks and wears of your date. Sure you know how much you want to hear those compliments after having invested much time consulting your mirror to look your best.
3. Thou shalt be interested and interesting. Honey, you’ve got to endure some boring jokes. One good turn deserves another, your own next joke may be a lot worse. But be sensitive to perceive if your date is interested in jokes. What I am saying is enjoy the moment, should it be your last…
4. Thou shalt be honest… If you do not want to date the other person again, please, do not raise his/her hopes. Speak out your mind in the politest way possible. Sure you would not like to be taken for a ride, would you?
5. Thou shalt open your eyes, your ears, your mind, and follow your heart. Please date someone you are interested in or attracted to whether or not you get your peers’ approval. But be careful, especially if you have heard of potential dangers of dating the other fellow. Your date’s angry spouse that you did not know about may not fall in love with you at first sight.
6. Thou shalt stay positive. Even if the date does not end well, learn something good from it, something you should avoid the next time you date another. Besides, connections matter a lot in life, you just might have dated someone who will get you promoted in life not too far from now. Be courteous still, it may count later in the future.
7. Thou shalt care and show you care. People do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. Be nice!
8. Thou shalt not be superfluous. Do not call excessively unless you get a positive response from the other person. It could be frustrating at times. Sometimes, being superfluous could cause some suspicion.
9. Again, thou shalt be honest. Lies have a way of rearing their ugly heads later in the future when things are going on perfect. So, never you tell a lie in the beginning that you may regret should this person be your perfect match.
10. Thou shalt not be too available. Lest you make yourself too common and a source of boredom with time.
11. Thou shalt be not be immediately too revealing.
People love enigma and mystery. You can ruin it all by providing your complete biography at the first few dates with that person. What would happen if you took a 3-day flu treatment all in one day?
12. Thou shalt be careful Be careful to have your phone fully charged when going out on a date, let people know where you would be going, and go to well known places. Never be pushed into anything you are not happy with.
13. Thou shalt have self-control. Never get drunk or be rude on a date. Never have sex on your date; it is a sure way to crash the date plane. People may go any length just to have a piece of what lies between your crotches. Do not give yourself away cheap. What’s the worth of your body? Some nice flatters, a decent meal, and a good drink? Someone who will not go further with dating you until after sex with you has just told you what he/she is really interested in. Your body, NOT YOU! You will soon be dumped like a rag.
14. Thou shalt not date a married person. You don’t want to do that. You deserve a lot better than misery, depression, playing the second fiddle, lies, deceit, and lack of self-respect. Believe me, it is way very risky to do this. You do not want all that trouble.
There are so many other commandments, but all of them have one thing in common; having a good self esteem, and a wonderful attitude. Make sure to practise some of these dating tips with people around you so that they come natural when with your date. You don’t want your partner catching you reading these tips on your date. Duh!
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