Seducing a woman takes some of time, but it begins with knowing how approach women. This article is to help you take the first steps toward approaching women effortlessly.
The main reason men hesitate to approach a woman is because they’re afraid of rejection. If you attempt to start a conversation with a woman, you’re making it known that you’re interested in her. You’re giving her the opportunity to respond positively or not. Getting shot down can wound a man’s pride. You need a defense.
Your best defense is a positive attitude about yourself and a realistic evaluation of the situation. High self esteem really helps. You need to feel good about yourself independently of any woman’t initial response to you.A self confident man isn’t bothered by an apparent rejection by a woman who doesn’t know him. He’ll feel good about himself regardless of what they do.
Paradoxically, not caring if you are rejected makes it less likely that you will be. The tough part is having self confidence when you first start out. Once you’ve had some success, the self confidence comes more easily.
As in a lot of areas in life, it can make sense to “fake it ‘till you make it”. In your mind, decide how a truly confident man would feel and act and then act that way. Imagine how he would carry himself and adopt that posture.
It can help to practice by approaching and talking to women that you actually aren’t all that interested in developing any relationship with. Doing this lets you get used to approaching a woman, interacting, judging her response, carrying on a conversation and feeling relaxed.
Do your best to make a good first impression but if she rejects you, so what? It was actually generous of you to gift her with your attention. One aim here is to get to the point that you’re comfortable approaching woman and honestly think it’s their loss if they miss the chance to know you better.
Developing this “so what, her loss” outlook will keep you from appearing timid and insecure when you start approaching women you would like to meet.
In all of this you need to distinguish between strong self esteem and arrogance. A confident man doesn’t need to brag and he doesn’t need praise from someone else. His confidence comes from an internal knowledge of himself.
When your practicing with women, act with honor. It’s very likely that a number of women will respond positively to you. If you don’t genuinely honestly reciprocate, don’t lead them on. After a while, tell them you enjoyed meeting and chatting and move on.
You’ll learn more about the psychology of this approach at the Most Important Seduction Secret. And I also higly recommend that you go to Flirt Master to sign up for thier free report on the 33 rules of being an alpha male.
