Adult toys have been around in one form or another for many years but they are becoming more popular than ever in modern day society. Often referred to as marital aids, sex toys help sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website purchaser figures illustrates that the proportion of men and women purchasing sex toys is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being buyers. If you are just starting out with marital aids and want to try them out for the first time to heighten you and your partners sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy, this guide will help you to decide what to do.
What type of adult toy is the best to begin with?
Which marital aids to start with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of sex toys? Sex toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal sex toys, penis pumps, clitoral pumps, sex dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative sex toy for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some level of flexibility such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative marital aids such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to maintain an erection which is fuller and firmer that can lead to increased sexual satisfaction for both parties. These cock rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal penis rings, which cause considerable restriction to the wearer.
Size and cost concerns
Other important factors to consider\think about are size and cost. Start small and work up to bigger sex toys when you are more experienced. Mini vibrators deliver a wondrous orgasm but are small enough to be carried just about anywhere. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your initial purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a sex toy. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and hence do not result in a major outgoing.
Use sex lubricants
If you are a beginner to penetrative marital aids it is eternally advisable to use a sexual lube. This is particularly important in the use of anal toys as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally cause their own lubrication so it is imperative that anal lube is used for more fun and comfortable anal sex toy pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to sort out the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably easier. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more enjoyable.
Sex toy cleaner
On purchasing your marital aid you should also consider buying a sex toy cleaner. Cheap to buy, this additional item should be utilised straight away after adult toy use to keep it clean. Safe, effective and ant-bacterial, sex toy cleaners help to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria and help to keep your sex toy last for longer.
